Personal life update rant:

1. GF/fiance is having pre-wedding "am I sure about this?" meltdowns an year before our hopefully-wedding and I've ZERO idea how to handle it, kill me.

2. Might change my job for the 2nd time in 2 months coz double pay but it's got visa shenanigans so I've to travel cross-country for it, kill me, again.

Same here

feel you, we're getting married in 3 weeks, good luck with both!

bro she already fucked her ex prior to the wedding, whores (women) always do this, why do you think shes hesitant Now? because she realized her ex's dick feels too good and she misses him so now she doesnt really want marriage with a beta male like urself. ur good as an ATM machine to her tho but her ex's dick is too good

@b2plane my dude you need to kill yourself immediately.

@bosslogic ur also a beta male just fuck yourself u cuckold. ur wife also cheats on u too with an alpha like me who gives her a hot beef injection pre wedding

@bosslogic i only speak truth and facts which happen to always be painful to hear

Brother I don't know that there's a "way to handle that." Hang in there.

@azuredivay you can either be vulnerable now with her and tell her how it feels to hear her doubts and voice your own, or you could wait 10-20 years to do it in a screaming match. It's natural to have doubts you're professing your life-binding love for one another and promising to nurture that love through it all.

Your vulnerability now might bond you both and reassure her to make a choice she won't regret

This might help: https://youtube.com/watch/...

@b2plane did the dictionary people pay you for your picture in the end?

At least there's comfort knowing it helps people understand the word incel much more now with your face next to it 👀

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@b2plane are you an Andrew Tate video 🤣

@azuredivay

Step 1: breath. Be there for her feelings, dont invalidate them. Meditate. Do things together that makes you feel emotionally connected.

Step 2: if that doesn't work, wait until she's out and call the locksmith.

@jestdotty interesting. Are you submitting to the woke mind virus?

@b2plane

Since that's what allegedly happened to you, does that mean you are the loser beta here or something?

Back on topic I guess it's normal to have doubts before what is, at least in theory, a lifetime commitment. Specially coupled with the whole stress of wedding prep.

Not necessarily applicable to you, but I was very close to marrying my ex-gf, and now I know, it would have made me really unhappy. I dodged a bullet there.

Not saying that it's the same for you, just trying to show that having reservations and doubts is normal.

Hopefully she's a good fit for you, unlike in my case, and you live happily ever after.

@jestdotty you know us leftists, we want you to doubt your sexual identity to become part of our secret gayz club with @retoor. No homo

@b2plane hey man I know past memories of relationships are pretty tough and it’s hard to work through them, but casting unwarranted and generalized blame based on our biases and personal history only makes the problem worse. It’s only moral to try to remove your own biases. Acting on biases is what cops do, so don’t be a cop. It’s ok to be angry and sad. Give it time man and it will change.

@shovethisrant its not a bias i only speak what the reality is. 1 good normal woman for me is and always will be worth more, than infinite number of whores. unfortunately i learned the hard way that a normal good woman doesnt exist. its a fairy tale. a disney story. not real. therefore only whores exist, and thus i emphasize whores (women), cause theyre all the same

it is simply female nature to be whores. hard wired to jump from dick to dick for some unknown survival reason. even if they find the perfect man who has everything they ever wanted like this OP, they still need to jump to other dicks. saddening.

women are the most evil creatures i have seen in my life. why do you think Adam was able to defeat satan the snake, in the garden of eden, and overcome all sins and temptations, but he has fallen only because of a whore (woman)?

exactly. think about it. the biggest enemy of every man, is a whore (woman), ever since the garden of eden...

@b2plane young man god want you to marry a puss real quick shez gonna dress u up like a mf and ya knot gonna disiriispect women like dis trust me it happened to me now i have to wear underwear bro wtf

@mostr4am sounds terrible but at least dem gays have a lot of druggoz. Grindr is used to score druggoz

@b2plane don't cheat men more than women?

@retoor No.

most men remain single after breakups.

women (whores) dont break up without a backup.

men love emotionally.

women (whores) "love" opportunistically.

@retoor

Dunno about cheating. That can go both ways. Divorce, however, is initiated by women mostly.

Their reasoning, some bullshit about "not feeling it".

And that's the problem.

We are logical, we don't understand you throwing a life away for some feeling. (Note the careful use if quotes).

Problem is, women are taught nowadays that they hold no accountability for their decisions, and that's plain bad for everyone.

Women: if you want to play the strong independent woman thing, you pay for the date, for the trips, or at least fifty/fifty.

Men: don't simp. Love is demonstrated when everything goes south. Fake it if you need, but make sure you have a good woman, and if so, care to provide, protect and whatever.

@jestdotty

You really should stop going about that incel shit.

True incels never expose themselves to these situations.

Boys bear the weight of near assured rejection (and that's fine), but if you insist on being truly equal, be the ones making the first move (and deal with rejection), and that would expand minds.

@CoreFusionX Agree, I always paid most in relationships. Not because of being some strong & independent thingy, I just made made a lot more. It made sense. Don't regret it

@jestdotty

Dunno, I wasn't the one being hurt when someone told you you were unlikeable.

What you think of me, I couldn't really care less.

But the way you think about all of this is just so stupid, but anyway, carry on.