Look what came in the mail :D

Too bad my sister took it from me. :/

Don't give up the gifts!

@yendenikhil
It's embarassing, but I'm a doormat to a seven year old.

@Michelle I know about your sister (from previous rants) but I would teach some boundaries (will help her to be more mature about things than your bro)! Just saying. And I know you would want to have the ball!

@yendenikhil
Honestly, I don't mind sharing. As long as she's happy, I don't mind.

@Michelle sharing is good! And careful the happiness doesn't turn in brattiness. Lot of cute things of children became irritations as they grow up! Make her happy and good person! Also, you know you are also allowed to be happy right? At least sometimes!

Go and retrieve that stressball now.
If you don't teach her basic manners now, she won't learn anytime soon.

Better now than ending up with a big brat later ;)

@yendenikhil
Oh, you're right. I never really thought of that. I should stop spoiling her. :)

@PrivateGER
I should probably stop doing that to her. If she becomes a brat, it'll be my fault. I'll talk to her about it. :)

I agree to the others. When i was a child we had respect for the older kids. My little sisters can be quite demanding from time to time but i'm learning to say no, even if they seem sad afterwards.

But still i carried one of them on my shoulders for half an evening ^^". At least i put her down eventually and refused when she asked to get back up again.

@YouAreAPIRate
Wow. That's a nice mix of sweetness with assertiveness to your sisters.
I should learn from that. :D

My younger cousins (4 and 7) rule over me, though I rarely see them so I think it's fair. Not a family party goes by where my shoulders aren't supporting a giggling child.

@Michelle funny how you mention me and assertiveness in one sentence, because that's one of the things i lack most ^^". But i'm trying there, i keep telling myself "my presence is a gift, and if you want to spend time with me you better show me the minimum of respect". I don't mind making others happy, but at some point i have to become selfish. I already knew my shoulder would hurt the next day (which it did) so i had to get my sister back to the ground. It was quite funny though to see her struggling with limb legs for a few minutes ^^".
That way of thinking only occurred to me after i left home, and the way i was before... better not talk about that, because that's my mi-shell.

Did you get it back?

My stress ball belongs to my cat. I haven't seen the ball for some days, now that I think about it.

@shellbug
I did get it back for a week, but then my sister got it again lol.

Steal it from your cat when he/she is asleep. ;)