Worked my ass off for every single thing, gave everything I had, didn't care about my friends too in some situations
But...
When it came to making someone the head... It wasn't me it someone not even close to me..

Why did that happen? Possibly another opportunity will arise for you.

I know that feel buddy ! stay strong. ..

Your career is important, but I know from experience that you don't want to put friends and family second. You'll end up missing things that you'll never get the chance to make up and people at work will never see or fully appreciate everything you do for the company.