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If that were the case there wouldn't be any bullies/assholes/murderers/rapists etc etc.
And what you normally believe to be resilient people whose resilience stems from being bullied in the past is normally not resiliency, but a paranoid defense mechanism.
You can still bully them, you can still make them feel like shit.
I continue to firmly believe that psychological abuse can in the long run create incredibly strong and confident people, that those who become depressed as a result of being abused simply haven't developed the ability to use everything for the better, and that bullying can encourage the psychologically-abused to use everything for the better.
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