Sometimes i wonder what if am a fairly successful man in future? In my 40s, with a secure job, a beautiful wife, 3 kids , parents , and a healthy family ?
What would i be advising my 20 yr old current self to gain such a future?

Don't be afraid to work shit jobs in your chosen industry.

That aint fairly successful, thats just mediocre

Don't work shit jobs in your chosen industry.

Eat your vegetables

Take the red pill

Don’t drink too much vodka on company events.

@ganjaman i will be a happy man if i got at least that. Maybe even a religious one too

@git-out @jareish nice but, i was really looking for a serious advice.

@TitanLannister keeping yourself healthy is important af

@Nanos thankyou (*the previous one,lol) That's one good advice.
In clg we take decisions in a jiffy, but sometimes regret that.
With so many constraints and responsibilities , My life currently resides around computers, watching web series, doing dev and programming, nd learning shit at clg... Social me is kinda awkward and introvert, but i do have a gang of nerds around..
I usually think if what am doing is all right or not, if i should really be enjoying more or study more, of i should have some other "fun" like drinks nd stuffs, romances, learning to drive and go drifting , partying , etc, or be a simple guy and focus more on Carrier...

Lol so many ifs... I think too much i guess

There is only one thing I would like to tell you:

"Your work life is far too long to waste it on a job you hate!"

Find your limits. Know yourself.
When you do something be patient and consistent to finish it.
Live your life not others life.
Find something / someone that gives you smile everyday and stick with those.

edit:
Learn foreign languages.

Work hard for what you want. It won't just land on your doorstep, you gotta fight for your dreams.