Today i got so fucking depressed and discouraged because whenever i tell people "i am a software engineer" or "programmer" especially fking girls they just fuckin leave. They dump you. Imagine seeing someone with both ur eyes, both of ur shits seeing someone go from high interest and then watch their interest drop

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All the fckin way back to 0 if not even below that.... How the fuck am i fuvjin g supposed to fking feel. What am i supposed to think. This is such a fucking bullshit. I am fking wordless.

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Each time this shit happens i question myself if i should regret wanting to be a software developer or not

If they don't care about you, why would you care about what they think of you?
Keep looking for better people.

what if you tell about the grand vision on how important software is.
like "my job is to make people happy" 😃

bro where do you live? Do programmers not make a lot of money where you are at? The reason being that where I am if you are a developer you are seen as a catch due to the amount of money to be made in the area.

Normally I would also check how you present yourself regarding your profession. If you add too much passion to it you are seen as a nerd or a weird asshole(speaking in general terms, not aimed at you btw) but if you slide that shit casually it usually brings about better results.

Another thing is to let them gauge it. Engineer might or might not impress people (beats me why would it not) but say for example that someone asks about what you went to school for (if you did) and lead them on to the idea of being a scientist that works with software engineering or something like that. Make them think "cool". It really matters what you direct their attention to man. Don't get discouraged

Just say you work in tech, then ask what they do.. they’re probably Insta mahhdols anyway so keep it vague and interesting and do t try to prove your worth to them with your job.

I always say I make websites because that's more understandable for them

@rutee07 @Jifuna @monzrmango @badcopnodonuts @AleCx04 @heyheni @endor i will just say from now on that i do MMA and no one fuccs with me