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sariel84473yOn the other end, I can explain stuff but I come off as:
- angry
- condescending
- a know it all
- an asshole
So, it's not you. Everyone is a piece of shit. -
Can you elaborate on what you mean by cannot explain stuff?
Maybe you need some translator? -
@IntrusionCM by not being able to explain stuff i mean stuff like, i start to stutter and forget words and just basically not being to get out words that you want to get out. And I have a close friend that helps me explain stuff to others because she understands me :,,) And the sad thing is the people that I don’t know, they start to judge :,,)
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sariel84473y@Sodalite06 sounds like you have some kind of speech impairment, be it stress or a communication barrier.
There's a ton of resources here in the US for speech therapy, I'm sure in Sweden there are places available as well.
I highly recommend looking for one if this bothers you that much.
To help put it into perspective, my child *was* nonverbal autistic at the beginning of 2020. I can now have full conversations with them(when they want to 😂).
I'm not promising you will have results overnight, but I can promise you nothing will change unless you make it change. -
KenyanDux273y@Sodalite06 it used to be the case with me. I used to frequently freeze in the middle of explaining stuff. But then I noticed I was try to speak as I was thinking. Now it's better because I think first and talk. Sometimes the stuttering happpens happens, but not all the time.
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KenyanDux273y@sariel no that's not the case, godamn think before you speak. It's matter of thinking before speaking that's the solution here.
I hate not being able to explain stuff 😔
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