My friends are getting married and having kids and I'm having pitiful arguments over the most pathetic and useless discussions ever in my code reviews in a brain eating job with no end in sight.

Now, you know exactly how a parent feels when talking to a child.

@sariel Okay, I didn't expect that

my friends are getting married and having kids, and i live with my mom in the room where i was growing up as a child, each week solving a problem "will i have enough money for cigarettes this week?" and trying to find any motivation and will to try and actually do something with my life, so...

you're doing well, buddy ;)

Believe me, those two are not mutually exclusive.

Can't decide on which one sounds worse to be honest