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You're skills inadvertently helped you sniff (pun intended) out the true nature of your gf (hopefully ex)... but seriously take it as a good thing. You can address it with her and ultimately decide if you want to risk dating a cheater... or not. You emotions are on the line and the risk is staying in that relationship. Keep immersing yourself in projects and try to socialize and vent how you feel to actual people (friends and family) in person. I feel like posting it on here is a good start, but it doesn't do you true justice. I wish you the best on whatever you decide and I hope your sucking up days become a distant memory and that new days were your skillset dictates your pay scale are given birth.
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I really feel you man... I have been there. I don't know you, nor your personality or anything about you. But I do know who is the most important person in your life: you. Whatever you choose to do with your relationship with that bitch, do it for yourself. Also, I can tell you are quite awesome from what I read here, so keep your head up and look up to the future. Time will pass and you will get better.
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Ah man, take this with a grain of salt since this is from an asexual, but love is extremely unnecessary. Especially if you're living on the edge, paycheck to paycheck it's the last thing you need.
You're an amazing person for being able to communicate with computers (albeit it doesn't work all the time) and accomplishing something like this really is a good thing for you because on your hunt for your next gf (I know you won't listen to my advice of leaving love so listen to Cupid's instead) you have more experience in what to look for ;)
Happy coding from Sweden❤️ -
@Jop-
I've noticed that now that I'm a bit older, jealousy is less of a thing. However, TRUST seems to become more and more important.
Cheating, for me, is not about breaking a monogamous relation, but about honesty. It would hurt incredibly if my girl lied to me or tried to hide someone from me — because we have built a deep bond, and I want to know what she thinks and feels.
Lots of people communicate poorly, and relationships die unnecessary early deaths. If you're bored of our angry with your romantic interest, have a talk, maybe you can work on it. If it's about some sexual kink, talk about it, see what you're both comfortable with.
Long relationships which survived bumpy roads, with lots of invested effort, and where both take care to nurture trust instead of damaging it, are next level stuff. Just having been through so many things together means you eventually sync up on a cerebral level.
It's really sad and insulting in my opinion when someone decides their significant other is not even worth the truth. -
Great news man, just means that:
1. You got much wiser in your choice of GF
2. No damage done because she is JUST a GF, and not a wife and mother of your kids.
3. You can now get brand new model
And based on my own experience, she WILL regret loosing a guy that is hard working and faithful. The older she will get, harder will be her reality.
So no worries man. You just got one less problem in your life. Just focus on your shit now, clean it up. -
Fuck it! This could almost go on a CV😂! Out of all cheating stories you take the cake of awsomeness!
It's allways sad to read these stories but those who take revenge never end any good. Just simply talk about the texts and break up with her. She's going to do it again so just break up!
The pleasure will be if you get the chance to explain why you broke up to her friends || family. -
@ragnarr023 how are you feeling?
I feel like a fucking abomination at the moment.
I have been working on an app that is almost like Wireshark. More so for practice than anything else.
I decided that today I would try it out on the network here at my house, so I started the packet sniffer and wanted to see what was going on. I was checking for unencypted text (like telnet and whatnot) and came across this odd address that I hadn't seen before.
I did something that I shouldn't have done, and I fucking clicked and did the equivalent of "follow TCP stream" on wireshark. I fucking went and looked what the text being sent over this fucking network was.
It was my girlfriend, using fuck knows what messenger, but it was unencrypted. I just found out that she is cheating on me. I don't want to go into what the texts exactly say, because it fucking hurts me deep down.
Why didn't she just use whatsapp or something, fuck man. I really don't need this in life at the moment. I am genuinely trying to get my shit in order, I have been coding my ass off at night for extra money to make it, I have been working overtime where I can - fuck I have even tried sucking up to management (I would never do this under normal circumstances) - and to top this off, the motherfucking tax man is giving me hell.
Fuck sakes.
If you want to cheat, fucking do it properly. Because I am in a state of pure sadness and hatred and the moment - and I don't know what the fuck to do.
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