How do Married Devs balance between their wives and their work?

Pfft.. That's the Beginner level.

Add 3 kids [newborn, preschooler and a 1st-grader], a side gig [contracting] and a house reconstruction project. And weekends with family activities. All that on top of 'wife and an FTE job'.

Then we can talk. If anyone's got it figured out - let me know. While I'm still afloat. And not broke.

@netikras that's only medium difficulty.

Wife with two jobs, me working 60h a week and traveling, 3 kids, 1 random who needed housing, a basement Reno to fit more people, and chaperoning my brother and his wife with their new born because they smoked crack with a new baby and protective services got involved.

Also working on my next belt in BJJ so I'm at the gym 3 days a week to keep the rust off.

She enjoys her alone time as much as I do, so we have both alone and shared time. There isn’t really anything to “handle”.

You guys have many wives?

@Lensflare A many-to-many mapping handles the edge cases and also works fine for the more usual scenario.

I masturbate a lot

@netikras Seems like I'm on level 1. I only have a wife and no kids.

My wife does have a job for herself though, I get my tasks done when she's in her office.

Pretty much yeah

Stop working after work hours...?

@ScriptCoded you have work hours? :o

@SidTheITGuy don't worry, you'll get there 😁 and even get used to it.

Being in 2 places at once will become a new norm 😁