I think I might be using weed and social medias to cover for my depression

There's nothing as good as feeling normal, sober, if you prefer to be high more often than not, something is wrong. But you have ADHD afaik. That can be related. Is the married life too boring for ya maybe? No gays that steal your phone anymore like in the old days :(

@retoor I don't know she's driving me mad.

On friday night, she cames back at 10pm, she starts cooking. I'm like "don't you wanna do it tomorrow", she's like "NOOO I'M GOING TO THE LIBRARY IT HAVE TO BE DONE NOW". Then she got mad at me for being silent (like bitch it's 10PM I'm about to go to sleep) and then the food was meh and she left a huge mess.

Then the day after I'm like "Ok I'm gonna clean up", and she arrives and start cooking AGAIN and mess up things I just cleaned up. So we had a huge fight.

And then the day after, it was kindof ok, I started cleaning AGAIN and AGAIN she came and started cooking, even though I was like "please let me do my part of the works", but no, I had to do groceries, and cut things, and help her, and then she's like "WOW YOU'RE NOT DOING ANYTHING".

I'm out of money because she doesn't give a shit about money and if I dare to say "hey maybe we can, you know, not spend everything" she gets mad and call me cheap. Now I owe 30k in backtaxes

@retoor he wasn't gay he was black

ffs I just wanna clean my goddamn house without having somebody messing things up as I'm doing it, is that too much to ask? She's not working, she have the whole fucking week to cook things.

She doesn't have to work to your schedule.

Though why are you cleaning up for her, particularly if it upsets you?