Lose weight
Get a boyfriend
Stop procrastinating
Actually finish a project

Omg same. Like on every point.

I bought running shoes and I literally used them for 10 minutes to walk the dog.

When the weather improves though... yeah, when the weather improves.

*inserts final piece of chocolate from giant Easter egg*

@senzory yeah. I’m gay and the OP may well be too. So it follows we’d be looking for boyfriends rather than girlfriends.

@Milenchy OMG Betty. Hey girl hayyyy.

@Brolls lmao

Haaaaaaaaaaay

@ScribeOfGoD *waves*

@Brolls Unite the gay! Lol

Same

@rEaL-jAsE I made a post a while ago to try and find our people, but didn’t manage anything. Heyyyy *wave*

@Brolls
Your people?
I actually smiled at that. I never knew gays had their own tribe or something lol.
Does that mean I'm supposed to call aros and aces "my people?"

lose weight in healthy way*

Love how ppl are like "OMFG GAYS DEV LOVE ME BABY" when it's like only a part of the post

but I like it anyway, bi dev here o/

@Michelle Defining "my people" would be so difficult. I'm unsure where I am on a dozen of spectrums and scales, so how would I even know where others are? 😁

@Michelle oh wait you're ace ?

Gimme five o/

.

Me: *opens Urban dictionary*
*searches for "aces"*: oh... How does that even work?? 🤔
*searches for "aros"*: ok... How does that even work??!! 🤔😶

@-ANGRY-CLIENT-

@DodgerAkame how I feel right now.

@-ANGRY-CLIENT-

@D3add3d Ace/aro is used for a spectrum of (lack of) attractions.

Doesn't necessarily mean you're an antisocial loner, and doesn't even necessarily mean the person has no sexual/romantic attractions at all.

A lot of people who use these labels have no problem with relationships, love or even falling in love -- they just don't experience lust in the same contexts, or have no desire for in the same relationship rituals as others.

But like I mentioned earlier, it's hard to define labels and groups at all.

Some might have a total aversion to romance/sex and truly dread it, others might just think it doesn't add much, but don't mind it either.

I'm married to a girl you could describe as gay(-ish?) and/or aro/ace(-ish?), and I'm a straight(-ish?) guy. I'm now very happy with my relationship and love life, it just took a while to sync up to each other and work things out.

@bittersweet ah, thanks for explaining it :-)

I lost 11kg since I started working out back in December, so I got that point going for me.

Still no girlfriend. (The latest one I dated were messed up in her head, so had to end it)

Fixed the procrastinating part as well, bit haven't finished a project yet :(

@aaxa you're doing better than me 😂

@Milenchy Yeah well, it took me 3 years to get to this point of not procrastinating and 2.5 years to push myself to go to the gym.
Plus I didn't date for 3 years at all until now, so it has been a struggle.

But tbh, the best advice I can give is focus on one thing at a time.
I started by cutting down on drinks with sugar (Coke, Red Bulk and so on) until I only drank it on special occasions.
After that, I started running once a week.
After that, twice a week and so on.
So really baby steps. It may take 3 years as it did for me, and it may take more, the only thing that matters is just any kind progress. Minor or major.

Also, I just quit smoking a couple of months ago as well :)

Trust me, when you've overcome one challenge, other challenges seem rather trivial

Literally me 🏳️‍🌈(woo), just I need to gain weight.

hello yes lesbian dev here ++'d

at this point @Brolls and @Milenchy must be a couple (*ﾟ∀ﾟ*)