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I think that the time to learn sub communication has come.

I just realized why I kept failing in the previous girls' tests. Besides of that I wasn't aware that I was being tested and kept wondering why they acted in a strange way.

Thinking about to create a "self-defense mechanism" in myself that whenever I feel that I am being tested atm I am going to block it by saying that this type tests fail on me or something like that.

I am done with tests. I hate them. If she is going to keep testing me, I will show her the red card and block her from my life.

I understand that it is in the nature of women to subconsciously test men and why they do that, but tbh they shouldn't be like "Why did he leave me?" when she keeps testing him and he can't do anymore tests.

Life is full of tests. Ain't gonna need more of that shit.

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    Each woman has her own way for these kinds of checks, that's part of one's personality.

    With some, you don't even notice it, which is so much more effective because it yields the unfaked result. They basically want to see whether you have your shit together and care more about reliability than dominance, and exaggerated macho behaviour will turn them off.

    And then there are some who test very aggressively, and the only men who will pass that is cold sociopaths - which is exactly what these women will end up with. That will escalate into realms beyond what the law allows, and then she's fucked, but once the court proceedings come in, he's also fucked.

    In fact, that's a big red flag that ought to make her fail your tests immediately.
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    Update: After 1 1/2 week of silence she started texting me and told me that she is sorry for how she reacted.
    I told her yesterday that I will talk to her about it maybe tomorrow or something like that, because I'm busy with an exam.
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    Guess that I am going to not text her and keep myself busy.
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    @-ANGRY-CLIENT- it's good that you're busy with something else. If you had reacted like "yeah sure let's meet today" after 1.5 weeks of silence on her part, that would have lowered your standing.

    And yeah, don't answer immediately, some hours delay are fine.
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    @Fast-Nop ikr. Gonna push the level of standing up
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