Anybody has experience with unpredictable mabagers who put you down for petty reasons? like not attending a fucking team dinner?

maybe the food wasn't good or he's anti social

My last boss would flip out over completely unrelated things and make everything out to be my fault somehow.

75% of the time I was the target; 20% of the time it qas the only other woman in the company; 5% it was someone else.

And he would do this whenever/wherever, including on a company-wide conference call.

Guy was (is) a fucking asshole.
I eventually had enough and just quit, leaving him with no dev team. I don't feel the least bit bad about it, and in fact feel like I should have quit much sooner.