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@rutee07 I kind of have a responsibility to take care of my parents in their old age (which is kind of an Indian way) and I am okay with that.
I agree, I'll be alone until I find better people in life. But being alone is surely better than being with rotten toxic bunch.
Thanks bud. This too shall pass. -
10 months passed since I left mothers home.
I am still having nightmares with my mother being my main tormentor.
I still see her in nightmares, manipulating me, playing on my fears. Threatening with physical abuse. Turning me into her slave.
Grandmother really does not understand that she brings me regular pain by just asking to make peace with mother.
I don't want peace. I want to get hell out of here, to the farest possible end of the world from my mother.
A bit thinking if I should see mind healer about it. Or going to Canada will do the trick. (The opposite place on Earth)
She had some brain to earn considerably... but she did not have brain to stop taking loans from banks more and more.
That made her a slave to banks essentially.
The only thing I can inherit is a lot of problems from her. That makes me afraid by just being in one country with her. I don't want to inherit her problems in case of her death. And with how she lives her life, it looks being soon. -
@IntrusionCM I needa put a piece of myself into all of the people of pleasing demeanor in my environment
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People who are poking weak point are just insecure jerks. They fear that the success that you own will soon outshine their inheritance.
Keep your head up and be proud. And each time they dare to speak, remind them that they are living off someone else's work. This is by definition being a parasite. Call them by this term. That will hurt back a lot, as they know it already, but can't dare to accept it yet.
When people hurt you, hurt back. Seeming weak in their eyes won't stop the abuse.
Carry on, man! -
@killames mine never hid anything. Some of them were dick since day 0.
@molaram thanks bro and that saying is true.
@darkwind I hope you feel better soon and would love to see you grow positively in life. Stay strong.
@IntrusionCM *hugs*
Appreciate this so much. Yes, at least I am living on my own terms without anyone doing me favours.
@KennyTheBard what you say makes sense. Many of them are insecure about various things in life and they poke those at me and my parents. Your words mean a lot of support.
You all are awesome :) -
Oh man ...I feel you.
I have absolutely 0 tolerance for toxic/duchbags/assholes/mean/fake/manipulative/bad advise on purpose/sabotaging people. I don't care if it's my boss cousin girlfriend 😠I see right though it.
When i see it can be very toxic to make those assholes run away from my life.
Blood vis not the only cratiria I have few friends I consider family, when I was down on the ropes they helped to overcome as I did for them .
The good honest truth : you must be kind to yourself first, the rest will follow.
To do that you need to surround yourself with people you like , people that believe in you and love you as you are.
It's take a lot of courage and mental work to live like this, but it's totally worth it.
I never thought I'd say this but I fucking hate my cousins and relatives.
Money and fame hungry people, constantly judging and excluding if you are not 'cool' enough. Give them attention, obey their orders, spend your money on them if you want to be considered human by them.
They spend 24x7 of their on Instagram with all their activities and gatherings revolving around the core idea of taking pictures and showcasing on Instagram.
All of them have inherited a fuck ton of fortune from their parents and live to spend. Nothing else in their life.
Their ideology is everyone should spend all their money and even if you have $5 in your savings, you are miser.
Cousins and relatives have bullied so much in my childhood that I had to go for therapy before I stabilised a little. They still fuck around and use me.
Now that I am living a better life than what I used to, they have started mocking my parents for it by shaming and excluding them from the family.
Not only I never wished ill but I prayed for their good health and success all my life. But all they did was neglect and ignore me.
Fucking blood sucking bastards. I still don't wish bad but I never thought I'd see this day where I'd hate them so much.
As I have worked really hard for my current life, because unlike them I had no fortune to be inherited, they pick some weak aspect of my life and poke it continuously to the point that it hurts me.
I never felt so alone. If not for my parents, I'd cut off all the times with such scums and move out for a better life with new people in life.
rant
relatives can rot in hell for all i care now