How did it take me until my mid 20s to realize that I don’t have to pressure myself as much as I do to be successful in my goals?

Good you realised already

@asgs yeah, some guys don't ever realize that and struggle as hell, or worse...

@We3D yeah people are lazy cunts and they selfishly keep all the good advice to themselves

@chonky-quiche there is that, but also most of d ppl r not mind readers and if not knowing the person for some time they just don't know which of the knowledge they possess will be useful for them and/or other factors ;)

that's why everyone should not be afraid to ask the hard and uncomfortable questions... in the worst case u'll be ignored or lied to, but sometimes even in the lies of the others one can find useful info ^,^

@We3D better out than in I always say

Suppose it’s more logical to assume that people don’t know

@chonky-quiche I agree on that, b/c most of the cases r like that

How could it have been earlier? You start to work at mid twenties and than need a couple of years to realize anything. So I think you are early.

@horus But we're raising superheroes here! We can't possibly foster a mediating environment... /s

@vintprox nah, only rock stars, anyone checked that lang btw? got sertificiat? I was thinking about it so I can present it proudly in my resume ;]

that's what your 20s are for tho

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