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@jestdotty Haha no need for that. She is capable of having her own original thoughts.
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@-ANGRY-STUDENT- well to be more blunt the whole thing stinks
and if you have such low self esteem, you'd be a likely target of romance scams
if attention from a chick makes you feel so lucky and you get smitten so hard it will be difficult to rationally assess situations. your gut is clearly uneasy
in romance scams, or any kidnapping or working people scams, they will set you up with someone whose nervous system is as similar to yours as possible. this means they mirror your sense of fashion, mannerisms, and obviously values and opinions. which is why I suggested that
feeling lucky means you have low self esteem and you don't want to look a gift horse in the mouth. your previous post suggests dismissiveness towards emotions and emotional maturity, which suggests you will have a habit of making emotional choices since you can't account for your emotional biases due to dismissing awareness of emotional motivations as being not "for you". so you're a targetable guy for scamming -
@jestdotty attention from women doesn't make me feel lucky and I don't have a low self esteem either.
Idk where you got that info from lol.
Before this chick I had a huge roster of chicks who I was regularly disqualifying/removing from my list.
She checked everything I wanted in a future wife from my list.
I'm rather surprised that I catched a 10/10 because I see myself rather in 6-7/10 looks wise. -
@Tounai bro, I reached 100kg in benching around 2 months ago. Doing 115kg now :)
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Good! Keep it up as this remains beyond any relationships
Still grinding the 3 plates, I’ll try in January. 3 months of being sick repeatedly didn’t help though 😟 -
@Tounai ah damn. I wish you a fast recovery then :)
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@retoor thank you and yes, they truly are interesting, indeed :)
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@retoor Go a bit slower on alcohol and drink a glass of water for each glass of alcohol you drink, this will prevent a bad headache tomorrow
Update about my last rant: https://devrant.com/rants/11157064/...
I gave up with the idea of ever getting back together with my ex, accepted that it's over and moved on. I genuinely wish her the best in life.
Anyways, I found an Indonesian woman and we're officially dating now. It happened when I was with my bro on a trip to Indonesia almost 2 months ago.
At first I was hesitant because it could be more of an interest for my passport but I figured that she's interested in me instead because when texting she almost never initiated. I kept texting her every 2-5 days. Now that we're together she does it everyday by herself.
She's literally perfect and definitely a massive upgrade from my ex in every way possible. Same values, same goals, same hobbies, same views and same religion. She's emotionally intelligent. She's physically a 10/10, too. I'm surprised that I could "catch" someone like her tbh.
Only issue right now is the language barrier. She understands some English but not good enough to hold a conversation. She works on it with Duolingo everyday.
Writing this as we're sleeping in call.
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